I have quietly been keeping up with the life of an old family friend of mine through her blog (and now website). I've witnessed her trials and tribulations, her successes and difficulties. As I've done so, I've gained so much. Through her experiences and lessons, I've learned to be more patient with myself. I've learned that it's ok to have those "lose control of myself" moments as long as I take a few moments later to reflect and learn from them. I've found an avenue of silent support. I appreciate the stories that she shares. I appreciate her sharing herself and her family's vulnerabilities to help others. It is a remarkable thing.
Within the historical perspectives class-American Motherhood, we have focused on motherhood as it has progressed over the years. In one of the units we discussed how important it is for mothers to have support and how without it, a mother's love can be conflicted, painful and even fatal. Part of that discussion was, where do we find support if those around us aren't filling that role? The blogoshpere was mentioned. I immediately thouht of her blog and the courage and wisdom it has brought to me. With that, I thought a thank you was overdue. So, I wrote her a letter saying, among other things, "thank you for putting yourself out there. I am certain I am not the only one who is inspired and encouraged by your words."
I thanked her for being a part of my support system, even if she didn't realize she was.
I am inspired by her and the many woman who comment on her posts. I am in awe of her courage and faith. All mother's need support and we find it wherever we can. Michelle O'Neil has provided me with support for years and she didn't even know it until today. Her stories are truly inspiring and continue to give me hope that I too can be the best mom I can be. Her stories invoke optimism and faith. She gives me strength. All mother's need a Michelle O'Neil. I hope you've found yours.
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